I rechecked a couple of sources and confirmed that my notes are correct. The expected mean square for the among dam component of variance is
σ2w + kσ2d
and the among sire component of variance is
σ2w + kσ2d + dkσ2s
where k is the number of progeny per dam and d is the number of dams. The reason for the factor kσ2d is that each of the k progeny of a single dam contribute to the among dam component of variability. Similarly, each of the dk progeny of a single sire contribute to the among sire component of variability.
I know it's a little strange, but that's the way it works out.

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